Recently I was walking with a friend of mine when I saw the expensive gift his female friend asked him to buy for her.
Just to make jest of him I pointed at the stuff and told my friend to buy it na (knowing he doesn’t have such money). And he looked at me and jokily said, “if I buy that stuff for her then I must have sex with her”.
Days later as I brood over that statement. It led me to ask myself why guys consider SEX to be the greatest payback gift a lady can give?
I myself remember telling someone that ” Christian Brothers ” are always at the lost end in any relationship because they pay similar sacrifice an unbeliever pays for their babe’s and yet do not ask for sex in return
Because deep in my core I have been wired by the society to think that females are made for sexual pleasure.
This have made them become sex symbols in men’s heart. If you still have doubts, when last have you seen a male being used by an advertising firm to depict sexiness?
And as a result men count it all lost when they make diverse sacrifice for a female who isn’t paying back bodily!!!
But isn’t there more to the female species?
Can’t anything good come outside their skirt?
What of their mind?
Haven’t we heard of the Einsteiness? Female scientists like Marie Curie, Rosalind Franklin, Gertrude Elion, Elizabeth Blackwell etc
What about Caesaress? Female leaders like Empress Maria Theresa, Hatshepsut, Empress Wu Zetian, Elizabeth I, Empress Dowager Cixi, Indira Ghandi etc
What about great Mothers (most which were single parents) like Sojourners Truth, Irena Sendler, J.K. Rowling, Indira Ghandi, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Dr. Dana Suskind etc.
The list is endless.
But the point is simply this; Females can offer men things highly valued than Sex. Such as Love, care, intellect, prayers, support, happiness, comfort etc.
So to all men out there who has chosen to love her only within the confinement of Purity. I say THANK YOU knowing that your discipline will positively shape the mentality of the next generation
Finally I say to all Ladies, pls enlarge your capacities. Build yourself. So you can have things beyond your body to offer. Read books, attend seminar, listen to tapes, have mentors, engage prayers, and master discipline.
Because in this 21st century real women are no longer judge by the content of their skirt, nor the size of their bra but by the content of their mind, the beauty of their heart and the mastery of their hands…
Once again I say… LET’S GO BEYOND HER SKIRT
# Micheal Anthony Idedia
